This week I am talking about changes in life and getting rid of the things that no longer spark joy.
Yes Kon Marie, this is dedicated to you, as I see what you set out to achieve. This was to help people to gain a spark in their life again and that inspires me no end.
This does include getting rid of friends too. If they make you feel self conscious by trying to put you down in front of people, who nit pick and slag you off behind your back, just get rid and let them stay in their unkind mess.
I am so done with that, like you would not believe. I can not believe the amount of shit I have had to deal with this year, and I bet they do feel smug about it.
I have written a post on my fictional blog The West London Girl, which hits on about this kind of thing, for those who pretend to be there for you, when they are not (check it out below):
I don’t mind people not liking me, as you can not please everyone. It the case of “Like it or lump it”, and let them decide if they want to be a good friend or not, but make it clear,
“If you like me great then be it, if not get the fuck away if not”. I find when people do this, it is time wasting and they are just using you, to get a kick out of their lives and it is really about their own insecurities not yours, and have no benefit to people, so I leave them where I found them and continue on growing myself and learning from people like these.
I see my friends as family. I always have, even when we don’t see each other that much, I just like those like me, like to hang out, chat, have a laugh and look forward to seeing all of them time.
With materialistic things, I go by how it makes me feel and if I feel like it is going to depress me, I get rid of it. The same as friendship. It is the best way. Example if I see a picture of people that I know are not nice, I don’t give it the time of day.
If there are people always on at you, then they must like you, as to keep picking on someone who means not harm to them, I must be dong something right for them to do so.
Nevertheless, it can take its toll and they do mean for you to cry and in my changes of life I did almost become the worse version of myself but I grew out o it, moved on and now am doing the thing I love out of this world, being in love again with a wonderful man, writing professionally and creating new books and songs.
I do write this kind of blog on my site: Everyone Can Build a Castle, but wanted to share this on this site, as my everyday living is, facing challenges aswell as fashion, beauty, skincare and shopping tips and advice. Please see the video I created below:
So if there is something in your everyday life that is bringing you down, then it is time for change and for something new.
Please check out my JustGiving page. I am raising money for a charity called, Tommy’s, they support and raise awareness of stillbirths and premature births. Please check out my page below:
https://www.justgiving.com/fundraising/theparentingadventuresprematurebirths
Many thanks for reading,
Carrie X
P.S: Please see more of my posts I have recently written on this site if you have yet done so.
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