The Days of school how I do not miss them

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To say I had some fun memories of school isn’t a lie, but do I miss it?

HUmmm no.

Having to rush to get up for school that started, and we are talking about the 80’s here, at 9am was on some days unbearable and wished they would just go away.

Now I do the school run with my own child its like reliving it all again apart from I have no lessons.

Sod school I wanted weekends everyday. Only one can dream.

My son loves school and has even asked to go back there on some days when I’ve have gone to picked him up and I am left feeling “What am I not good enough? Is school improved where kids actually want to be there?”

In my day you couldn’t wait for it to be over and get home to catch the rest of Childrens TV, that was only on 4 channels back then, and then watched Neighbours that was on at 5:35pm everyday, except weekends. Or you’d play out with your friends on the estate.

Please check out my book of my story called The Peabody Years.

Then you had childrens TV come Saturday morning, with Going Live on BBC and Number 73 on ITV.

School back then if you were naughty you would have to sit facing a wall, now my son does this voluntarily himself when he is being defiant as a way of blanking us.

I dreaded school dinners they were disgusting, honestly even the rats would ignore eating that crap, and was a reason why there were no pigeons near the school either. Thank the lord for Packed lunch is all I can say.

Yet now my son has all sorts at school and get a gourmet meal rather than looking like it doesn’t want to be on a plate either.

When I was at school you had kids trying to climb the fences and running out of school including secondary, now they wish to climb back in, god knows why but that is real world now and a far cry from when I went to school.

I remember having them hanging towel machines in the bathroom where any kid could pass germs to one another so easily and a boy called David, bless him set one of them on fire.

I wasn’t sure at the time whether to admire or kill him, as it got us out of class for a bit but of course it happen to be a boy in my class none other and all had to sit on the carpet until someone confessed to it.

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This was the same kid who also was rushed to hospital for shoving a rubber up his nose and then one of the girls in class copied ending the same both being rushed hospital to have them removed.

One kid in my year who was doing Design and Technology at the time in Secondary school decided to play around with some super glue and got her finger stuck on one of the desks and Italian class where we of course looked up all of the swear words rather than the actual italian we were being taught, finding the swearing in Italian more entertaining.

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This was pre internet and so there were no google, and you bought your clothes in store rather than online, and would take endless trips to C and A in high street Kensington on a Saturday after seeing my nan and grandad who lived in Chelsea, London.

Or I would spend some Saturday’s with my friend Hayley whom I have known all my life and we would play top of the pops, her singing Madonna and Kyle Minogue songs and I would sing Cyndi lauper or five star. Or we’d have toy fights against my brother.

When I see kids going to school in uniform which is the norm for kids in the UK, I don’t miss it at all, and was so glad for when school was over that as soon my time was done in school all my school books and clothes got happily destroyed.

That was the life at school, as soon you got in there the sooner you wanted to go home and finished the school. Of course my mum happened to work at my Secondary school, and pretended she wasn’t my mum and didn’t want anyone to know, so would call her miss just like the other kids until it came to parents evening and of course my mum had to be there.

In the end I would grass up the teachers before they could grass me up or we all took the mickey, that was what school was like then, and glad that I don’t have to live through again.

What were school like when you went? Do you miss it or not?

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Stay safe and many thanks for reading,

 

Carrie X

 

Celebrating Fathers Day

Hello and welcome to another blog.

Yes I am writing this blog at 22:40 at night because my son is with his father and so I want to make the most of the free time I have, to catch up on my blogs.

On Sunday as many of you may have remembered that it is Fathers Day, and so I thought I would write a blog to celebrate it. My father well biological father is now in heaven, well I hope he made it up there and died a couple of years ago, and to say I miss him is an understatement.

The man could have me crying with laughter or with sadness, there was rarely anything in between, but he played a huge part of my life as a London kid, who lived in a housing estate in Hammersmith, and helped me to toughen up, as being a short arse I was always an easy target for other kids to pick on.

I remember my dad bringing me into the living room and showing me how to throw a punch and if someone hit me to always hit them back. I know some parents may disapprove of this kind of parenting now, but it was a different time back then and as there was only 4 channels and no internet our play area was the estate.

My brother and I had a good bringing up, we made mistakes like most kids but we never went without and still had good decent meals on the table even if was cooked by our dad.

The weekends I loved as I would spend Saturdays mainly with my grandparents and Sundays in the pub, and yes I am talking from about from birth until I was about 16.

That was the way of life back then, Sundays were spent in the Magpie and Stump, Parmestan, The Riley, The Bedford, The Wilton or The Waterat. You name it we were in there, as kids drinking orange juice, coke or even sometimes a shandy.

Like I say as a child before the internet and new pub rules applied, it was normal for kids to hang out in pubs just like their parents.

Our dad would take us on our bikes and we would cycle along the River Thames feeding the ducks and swans as we left or play pitch n put in Bishops Park.

With the lockdown of course there hasn’t been anything open and will be a different type of Father’s Day this year, as we still having to follow social distancing rules, but I hope that you get to spend time with your dads, as now I no longer have a dad as such, you do find that you do miss them a lot.

So lets raise our glasses to our dads, whether dead of alive and have a wonderful fathers day.

Many thanks for reading,

 

Carrie X

 

Missing the Little things since Lockdown

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It has been a testing time this Lockdown business to the point I have missed the little things like having a McDonalds, being able to freely travel up to London, having a Chinese Takeaway and going for long distant walk.

It is amazing how you can miss these sorts of things but I do. Today I got back into doing some fitness training as I do feel I have piled on the pounds and now it is time to be disciplined again and to have a daily training session to get me back into shape.

For some the Lockdown has taken its toll on people’s finances but for me it has helped me from splurging and only buying what I need.

The one thing I am looking forward to is the charity shops reopening as I love rummaging through the bits and pieces in these stores as I do tend to buy second hand rather than brand new clothes to help save money on items that are eventually going to be added to landfill and at the same time giving money to a good cause.

It is surprising as to what you can find but I love these types of stores. I have also gotten into watching a bit more TV and I am loving the new series called The Other One, which is about two sisters with the same name coming together after discovering they have the same dad and are like long lost friends.

Very funny and I have enjoyed both episodes so far, it is on Friday’s BBC 1. On Sunday I enjoyed watching some good films, one was called Our House with Ben Stiller and Drew Barrymore, legally Blonde 2 with Reese Wetherspoon I love those films and My Fat Greek Wedding 2 which I hadn’t seen before and was very funny.

I love watching these sorts of movies and would like to do this again one Sunday as I would have liked to have popcorn and ice cream to go with the occasion.

So lets try and embrace the Lockdown as much as we can and lets try and get some normality back as much as we can and stay safe.

Many thanks for reading,

 

Carrie x

Sharing My Love For Music

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If you have read my other blogposts you would see that I love my music and I can spend hours playing music. I don’t tend to buy any music now but play it on Youtube.

The tracks that has rocked my boat this week is this tune called You got the love, love comes down, Dub be good to me and I touch myself.

I find music relaxing and empowering at the same time, I wrote a post some time ago on my website everyone can build a castle called Empowering music, and how it lifts my spirits and makes me feel like I can get through each day.

It is so easy to listen to music now and can be taken wherever you go if you have an android or smart phone.

There are songs that can take me back  in to life like many Diana Ross and Lionel Richie songs that remind me of when I went on holiday to Menorca and other songs like Fame that remind me of the holidays we used to have in Clacton.

I loved these holidays and its so nice to go back there in my memory of them. Check out my blog I wrote able My Life and Times at Butlins Holiday Camp.

There are songs that make me think of working at Butlins, holiday camps are great place to have holiday and it was a huge part of my life that those memories will be with me forever through music.

Music is so versatile that there are songs that still live on now, example the one song I am listening to now Give it Up by K C and the Sunshine Band.

So lets do as much as we can even if some of us are still under Lockdown and many thanks for reading,

 

Carrie X

 

 

 

 

It is Friday

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Hello and welcome it is Friday, hallelujah and means I have some extra time to get some blogs done.

I love my son but he is at that age where he wants to play a lot and so I have been spending my afternoons with my little dude watching quiz shows, check out my blog from yesterday Forever art they quiz show

I do like a quiz show and I managed to get a few questions yesterday, I still haven’t got a nine letter or a conundrum yet, but give me time I know I will get one eventually.

Tonight it should be Car Share , Not going out, which I love, along with Have I got news for you and the Graham Norton show.

I can’t believe we are now in June, and soon the kids will be breaking up for summer holidays.

I am at the moment doing some writing aswell as listening to some music. That is one thing I could never live without is my music, a day would not feel right if I didn’t.

I love beating out some Rod Stewart and rock music such as Cyndi Lauper, Aerosmith, Def Leopard,  and music like Billy Joel and Bon Jovi.

This weekend I have no plans appart from doing some more writing and seeing a special someone.

So have a good weekend everyone and stay safe.

Many thanks for reading,

Carrie X

 

 

 

 

Forever art they quiz show

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Hello and welcome to another blog post on my everyday living site.

So last weekend I watched Alan Carr’s new show Epic Gameshow and I got to say I loved it. I loved Play Your cards right as a kid to an adult and I still love it now. It was Play Your Cards right this weekend but a celebrity one.

I love a game show and it is different ones like Strike it Lucky, Come on Down and many more which at the moment I can’t remember the names of but hopefully get the gist.

Last night I watched a show celebrating Bradley Walsh, who is a Quiz show host, Actor and Comedian, 60th birthday. It was very funny looking back on his career.

Bradley Walsh is one of my claims to fame and I first heard of him when he was a warm up man for a comedy and he picked on my mum’s friend Gill. I been to see him on two shows, I am not going to tell you what they are as I can’t remember them, one was like a bloopers show and the other a talent show.

He has had an amazing career in film and on TV. His most recent show is a quiz show called The Chase, which I love and there is one now where you can play against all the Chaser. Now there are quiz shows I would do but I not sure if could do The Chase as I am alright during the second round where they go against The Chaser. The first and the last round I’d be bloody useless, so I think the only Chaser I’d have is a drinking one to cure my nerves.

He has also done shows like the Royal Variety shows and my absolute favourite, Sunday night at the London Palladium.

I do like Countdown but I am still yet to get a nine letter, I am lucky to get a 6 so I just count my lucky stars that I can get that, and forget the numbers game I am fucking crap.

Maths was never my niche but I do try I just know I am never going to get there.

I like the evening version of Countdown, 9 Out of Ten Cats, because they take the piss which more up my street.

I love Suzy in the Dictionary corner she is my goddess of words, so if I was to team up with someone, not that I like to cheat but it would be her, or my other half Lee McKillop or Stephen Fry.

Then numbers if I could do a swap it would be Rachel and numbers, or I’d bring back Carol Vorderman. Lets face it she knows how to fly, so if we had to make a quick dash out of the studio she is the person to go to.

Now okay so that is cheating but you can’t muck about with such quiz shows because you have to think about Tactics, and no I don’t mean Tik Taks, I mean TACTICS and of the ideal scenario because that is the only way I’d win. I know what people say, it is the taking part that counts, urmmm no not in my book it’s not, so get out of the way brainy and let stupid me have a go.

It amazes how these youngsters get on these shows, and not being rude but some haven’t even hit puberty yet but they still seem to know more than me, and I am now what 41, no chance.

So I am not going to retire and give up my quiz brain that I don’t have for the morning, until once again the quiz shows begin.

Many thanks for reading,

 

Carrie X

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Some Normality back

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Hi welcome to another blog. It is the end of another week almost and I am so glad to finally have some normality back.

Come Monday my son will be back at school so we can all have some free time again and he gets to spend time playing with other kids again.

This Lockdown has taken it’s toll that yesterday I lost the plot of what day it was.

I do feel like I have accomplished lots considering the circumstances and tried to make the most of how much time I have had.

Boris Johnson have completely confused everyone about social distancing that we have had to make it up ourselves.

My son has all in all been excellent considering, and still spent some time outdoors, it is always tricky with little ones, but come Monday it will back to the busy school run.

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I have been catching up on some TV today, and was annoyed that I missed Not Going out, so will catch up on this show, and also love Car Share, absolutely brilliant.

I also watch the Graham Norton show, and I got to say that good weekend television is back as there are some brilliant TV programs on now, including Britain’s Got Talent, Alan Carr’s Epic Gameshow and Mrs Browns Boys

So lets look forward to the weekend that awakes us to relax before the busy school run begins again.

If you can recommend some good TV please comment below I would love to hear from you.

Many thanks reading,

 

Carrie X

 

 

 

 

 

 

Look of the week/3-in-1 summer look

Hi and welcome to another Look of the week blog, where I share one of my looks for 2020 as part of my look book. Check out the 3-in-1 look below:

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Hi and welcome to my blog, this is blog is about my everyday living and lifestyle, and today I sharing a video by Sugar Mama, of 7 Self care hacks to look and feel fabulous:

Many thanks for reading,

 

Carrie X

Spring and summer fashion

Hi and welcome. So in today’s weekly fashion post I am showing some pieces for Spring and Summer.

The first one is a green pattern dress with a pair of slingback black shoes.

My weekly fashion look green patterned dress with black slingbacks

I chose the dress because of the shape. It would suit those who have big boobs and gives and hour glass figure effect.

The slingbacks are a classic style and could be dressed up or down.

white and red patterned dress with gold coloured wedges

 

This is my second look, great for spring and summer. I think the wedges will look brilliant with this dress.

Go perfectly with a Denim Jacket or a white fitted cardigan.

So they are my two picks this week and will post more for my Fashion Look Book next week.

Many thanks for reading,

 

Carrie X